黑面|身邊總有個朋友經常給人一種黑口黑面,外表冰冷的「黑面神」,但當熟稔之後,卻發現這個朋友雖然看似對任何事都漠不關心,但事實上卻是大癲大肺的癲婆/佬,同時亦擁有一顆為人之心,原來這一種人才是才值得深交的「死黨」。
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黑面|心直口賤唔等於損友! 外冷內熱嘅黑面好友才值得深交
每個人身邊都總會有個「黑面神」,當她/他不說話時,木無表情,甚至只是在發呆時,總是給人一種冷冰冰,又或者是準備發脾氣的感覺,深怕一不小心觸碰他們的地雷,其實這一切都只是誤解。
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加州大學的心理學家研究指出,由於「黑面神」天生有此屏障,因此會較為細心且冷靜地看清楚四周的人和事物,從而鍛鍊出超強的觀察力,懂得篩選身邊人。
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作為黃金華(黃子華)的粉絲😍,一定要去看的👍🏼。🗣唔⋯⋯係⋯⋯咩⋯⋯呀!
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#onlylady女人志 北京的秋天
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黑面|「黑面神」多數心直口快?!
美國溝通學者John Lund表示,「黑面神」多是透過溝通來化解他人對自己的誤會,而且為了身邊好友著想,很多時都是心直口快,因此有時候語氣可能會過重,但同時又會給人一種可靠感覺,如當好友找他們傾訴時,他們絕不會多番安慰,反而口賤得一針見血,雖好友會覺得有總被打,又或者是淋冷水的感覺,可是他們都是為好友著想才會這樣說,其他人則由他「去 死 吧」!
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Goodbye summer holidays, it was nice knowing you… (my boobs have grown and I am very proud of them if you couldn’t tell) 😉
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黑面|「黑面神」都係義氣仔女
此外,外國亦有研究指出「黑面神」外表看似冰冷,實際上是卻是很熱情,是典型的外冷內熱型,只要大家勇於嘗試與他們開聲對話時,他們亦會十分樂意地和大家建交,最令人感到溫暖的是,「黑面神」都是很有義氣的人。
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型就喺咁啦
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