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當紅女歌手「人間蒸發10年」 驚爆:遭遇恐怖對待

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更新於 2020年02月26日11:54 • 發布於 2020年02月26日11:32 • 楊惟甯
圖/翻攝自Duffy IG
圖/翻攝自Duffy IG

曾獲葛萊美獎肯定的35歲英國女歌手黛菲(Duffy),2008年因為一首《Mercy》紅遍全英國,卻在當紅之際銷聲匿跡,彷彿人間蒸發一樣,沒人知道她在哪、發生了什麼事,直到近日她才終於在IG「浮出水面」,並曝光了過去10年來遭遇的恐怖經歷。

「一定有許多人想知道我發生了什麼事、在哪裡消失以及為什麼消失。」黛菲今(26)日透過Instagram娓娓道來這些年發生的一切,她指出,在去年夏天,一名記者找到了她,並以友善、和緩的語氣徵求她的同意接受訪問,「我答應了,並告訴了他一切。」

黛菲說,在她事業正當紅的那時候,突然被人俘虜,並且施以毒品性侵,此事對她造成極深的影響,因此她不再唱歌了,「你問我為什麼沒有選擇用聲音來表達我的痛苦?因為我不想向世界展示我的悲傷。我問自己,如果心碎了,我怎麼能發自內心地歌唱?」

黛菲說,在這10年間,她曾經承諾自己要再次感受心中的陽光,終於她慢慢走出這段傷痛,「如今,陽光確實照耀著。請相信我,我現在很好並且安全。」黛菲表示,雖然不容易,但未來的幾週,她將透過訪談親口說出這段故事,「希望大家尊重這對我自己來說是一個溫柔的舉動,我不希望因為此事傷害到我的家人,請支持我去做這件勇敢的事。」

在 Instagram 查看這則貼文

You can only imagine the amount of times I thought about writing this. The way I would write it, how I would feel thereafter. Well, not entirely sure why now is the right time, and what it is that feels exciting and liberating for me to talk. I cannot explain it. Many of you wonder what happened to me, where did I disappear to and why. A journalist contacted me, he found a way to reach me and I told him everything this past summer. He was kind and it felt so amazing to finally speak. The truth is, and please trust me I am ok and safe now, I was raped and drugged and held captive over some days. Of course I survived. The recovery took time. There’s no light way to say it. But I can tell you in the last decade, the thousands and thousands of days I committed to wanting to feel the sunshine in my heart again, the sun does now shine. You wonder why I did not choose to use my voice to express my pain? I did not want to show the world the sadness in my eyes. I asked myself, how can I sing from the heart if it is broken? And slowly it unbroke. In the following weeks I will be posting a spoken interview. If you have any questions I would like to answer them, in the spoken interview, if I can. I have a sacred love and sincere appreciation for your kindness over the years. You have been friends. I want to thank you for that x Duffy Please respect this is a gentle move for me to make, for myself, and I do not want any intrusion to my family. Please support me to make this a positive experience.

@duffy 分享的貼文 於 PST 2020 年 2月 月 25 日 上午 10:12 張貼

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